Many people think that sexy has to do with sex (which is why many Christians look at me sideways when I talk about sexiness). Well, not necessarily. Being sexy has nothing to do with showing skin. Being sexy has nothing to do with generating lustful feelings in the other sex. Being sexy is about feeling confident in yourself. Your mind is at peace, your body is fit, and your soul is rejoicing. You feel as though you can conquer the world and take no prisoners! You walk tall, your talk is self-assured, your smile is genuine, and you exude inner beauty. Now, you may not be perfect. You may worry a little about getting that next pay raise, losing that next 5 pounds, and you may be lonely sometimes. But, sexy is when you can rise above this and make progress. Sexy is moving forward. Sexy is looking in the mirror and truly feeling good about yourself. With that said, let me give you some tips to help you feel sexy today: Continue Reading
We have all heard someone teach on the topic of forgiveness, and we know all about it, yada yada yada. And yet, we still do not consistently practice it. Let me see if I can place it in a different light.
When you forgive someone, you may still hold them responsible for the offense, however, you stop holding the offense against them, i.e. you stop beating them up for it either directly or indirectly. Now, you may file the offense away in your mental rolodex (as you probably should so that you will remember what/who you’re dealing with), but you learn from the experience and release yourself from any anger or vengeance associated with the offense. This is forgiveness.Continue Reading
I have learned the number one reason why relationships fail. Are you ready for this? When you learn what it is, will you be ready and willing to fix this in your own relationship? The concept is simple, but the work may be challenging. Check this out: Continue Reading