Recently, someone—once again—did something that was just WRONG. And I got to that point, like many of us do, where I was like, “Oh. That’s oooookay. I got something for that,” then mentally added them to my “ish list.” THIS time, however, after decades of having an ish list, I right away thought, “Now THAT’S negative.” I considered how long my ish list had grown through the years and thought, “Now this is ridiculous.” I was immediately reminded of the scripture that said love doesn’t keep score of the wrongs of others (see 1 Corinthians 13:3-7 [MSG]) and knew I had to make a mental change. A shift in my thinking was beginning to happen. [Read more…]
Sometimes God speaks to me in my dreams. As you know, I don’t usually share my dreams, but this one…I feel I am meant to share.
I was at a meeting where a strong man was speaking to a couple hundred of people. This man was a natural leader; he was young, wise, brilliant, strong, caring, lively, captivating, charismatic…. In the middle of his speech, another man, quite different from the speaker, a man of “authority” came in from behind the speaker, and told the speaker that he must STOP. The speaker ignored him and continued. The man in “authority” became angry and brandished a gun. [Read more…]
You keep waiting for him to change. You’re tired of paying the bills by yourself, cleaning by yourself, taking care of the kids by yourself, and being taken advantage of . He doesn’t even want to work because no job is good enough, or because he’s tired of his boss “disrespecting” him, or some other lame excuse. And besides all of that, he doesn’t even treat you right.
So what’s a girl to do? That all depends on what you want. If you want to kick him to the curb, then you don’t need to read any further. BUT, if you want your husband, if you want your marriage, if you want him to
let’s continue. [Read more…]