Some sista somewhere is going to read the title and say, “Hmmm, I’ll read on, but that’s not me.” Read on, sista, read on. I sincerely hope it’s not you, but it may be. Heck, before I knew such a thing existed as a layaway sista, I was already one myself! [Read more…]
Girl, that’s his M.O., you know, his “modus operandi” or his “method of operation.” All this means is that THIS IS WHAT HE DOES, as in…you’re not the first, this is his HABIT, the way the does things. And it’s very important for us to know these things when dealing with a man. We NEED to know his habits, his tendencies, his idiosyncrasies, his moods, his triggers, and any destructive or selfish behaviors or patterns. We need to learn these as soon as possible if we believe he may be someone we want to be serious with.
So, take for instance an attractive woman; we’ll call her Cheri. Cheri sees a fine man at the gym. He’s tall, dark, and handsome, drives a nice car, and she learns that he has a good job. So far, so good. Three months later, they’ve been dating steadily and Cheri is starting to feel pretty special when she gets to go meet his mother. Upon meeting his mother, his mother very innocently says to her, “You’re much prettier than all the others he brings home.” [Read more…]
While in a relationship, cheating is whatever you two agree that it is. Or, you may have your own personal views of cheating. But, most people would at least agree that cheating is when one or both people show attention or affection to anyone else on an emotional or sexual level who is not their significant other. [Read more…]
So, you’re a good woman. You’ve been a good woman to your man. But, now you THINK he’s cheating on you. It’s not uncommon for women, even good women to suspect that their man is cheating; although Christian, you’re human and he’s human. He may have even given you “signs” that make you
THINK he’s cheating.
Or, maybe you just “have a feeling.” Whatever the reason, you now THINK he’s cheating. Before you go all crazy with worry and go off the deep end, take a deep breath and let’s get your head together. Since you are a good Christian wife, and you are NOT going to lose any part of your virtue behind this or anything else, let’s look at a few things that you are NOT going to do. [Read more…]
Let’s face it: There are plenty of good men out there and some women are blessed to be married to some of them! But do you really treat that good husband the way he deserves to be treated? PLEASE tell me you are not neglecting the very man you should be honoring and loving! There are plenty of ways you can show him special treatment, some are no-brainers and some you can feel free to use your imagination. Here are 10 of the ways that I’ve decided to share with you (and in no particular order). Read on….