Girl, that’s his M.O., you know, his “modus operandi” or his “method of operation.” All this means is that THIS IS WHAT HE DOES, as in…you’re not the first, this is his HABIT, the way the does things. And it’s very important for us to know these things when dealing with a man. We NEED to know his habits, his tendencies, his idiosyncrasies, his moods, his triggers, and any destructive or selfish behaviors or patterns. We need to learn these as soon as possible if we believe he may be someone we want to be serious with.
So, take for instance an attractive woman; we’ll call her Cheri. Cheri sees a fine man at the gym. He’s tall, dark, and handsome, drives a nice car, and she learns that he has a good job. So far, so good. Three months later, they’ve been dating steadily and Cheri is starting to feel pretty special when she gets to go meet his mother. Upon meeting his mother, his mother very innocently says to her, “You’re much prettier than all the others he brings home.” [Read more…]