People in general, but women in particular, have been through a whole lot and continue to go through a whole lot. From childhood to womanhood, we’ve had daddy issues, mommy issues, issues with friends and school, health issues, job issues, children issues, and man issues. One thing that I keep hearing said to, or about, some women is that “she needs a man to validate her.” And most often, the response is, “I don’t need anyone to validate me!”
I woke up this morning with this topic so heavily on my mind (after my reading and praying time). When people repeatedly do something that is bad for them, sometimes it’s done out of ignorance, and other times it’s because of their deep “root system” or set of beliefs.
When we are children, there is a period in our young lives known as the “formative years” where we mentally process things in such a way that they become engrained into our consciousness and into our personality. It is at this time that “roots” i.e., beliefs are formed. [Read more…]