Jan 252011
 

When you think about what you want from your life, a dream home, sexy car, extensive wardrobe, vacationing in exotic places, or whatever, you probably come up with some sort of plan. You may start with, “I plan to take a vacation this summer with my honey.” So, when someone asks you what you plan to do in the summer, that may be what you say, but ultimately, that may not be what you do.

In this particular example, simply saying “I plan to…” is not really a plan. That’s stating a want. You may want to take a vacation in the summer, but merely wanting it will not make it happen. So, you may take it one step further. You may figure out that you will need $1000 to pay for the vacation and $1000 spending money. Okay, this is better, but still not a plan. Now you take it even further and figure out that you can save $100 from each weekly check to completely pay for your vacation, including spending money.

NOW THAT’S A PLAN. Continue reading »

Jul 082010
 

Many people think that sexy has to do with sex (which is why many Christians look at me sideways when I talk about sexiness). Well, not necessarily. Being sexy has nothing to do with showing skin. Being sexy has nothing to do with generating lustful feelings in the other sex. Being sexy is about feeling confident in yourself. Your mind is at peace, your body is fit, and your soul is rejoicing. You feel as though you can conquer the world and take no prisoners! You walk tall, your talk is self-assured, your smile is genuine, and you exude inner beauty. Now, you may not be perfect. You may worry a little about getting that next pay raise, losing that next 5 pounds, and you may be lonely sometimes. But, sexy is when you can rise above this and make progress. Sexy is moving forward. Sexy is looking in the mirror and truly feeling good about yourself. With that said, let me give you some tips to help you feel sexy today: Continue reading »