It’s been over a year since I last wrote. Sometimes you have to just be still and let God work with you…and He has indeed been working with me. This is my truth…my journey….
In late summer 2015, my divorce became final. It became final, and I wasn’t sure exactly what I wanted to do next. What I DID know, was that I needed to honor myself by listening to myself, and learning what I truly wanted and needed. I knew that I could only learn this without distraction, which meant that I would make the conscious decision NOT to date. My not “dating” was not because I was scared of relationships or because I all of a sudden hated men, it was because I realized that whenever I really accomplished anything in my life (with the important exception of having my daughters), it was as a single woman. So, in order to gain the utmost clarity in my life, I would have to go it alone. [Read more…]